Last week, I shared an excerpt from my newest book, Wisdom from Women in the Bible. I’m so excited about this book, because it represents my heart for the Biblical principles of leadership. The excerpt was from the story of Ruth, a courageous and caring woman who made decisions that changed her life and the lives of others.

You can read last week’s excerpt here. Now, I want to continue with the rest of the lessons we can learn from Ruth. This time, we’re focused on leadership:


We hesitate a moment. Which do we want more? To stop Ruth and ask her questions? Or to move forward and meet the next person? We sense our time here is limited and decide to keep walking. As we do, I reflect on what Ruth said and on her story in the Bible. With each step, leadership lessons become clear to me from Ruth’s life:

1. Do What You Know Is Right, Not What Looks Right to Others

The logical thing for Ruth to do when her husband died was to go home to her own family and look for a new husband. Naomi suggested she do that. And Ruth’s sister-in-law Orpah followed that advice.

Ruth could have allowed her questions and doubt to influence her to leave Naomi. But instead her heart came to grips with what she believed. She moved from the agony of questions she could not answer to the reality of answers she could not escape. She felt a deep conviction that she was to stay with Naomi. And she followed that conviction.

As leaders we need to remember that. Strong convictions precede great actions. When we know something is right—and that conviction is bolstered by the knowledge that our motives are pure, as Ruth’s were—we need to follow through. Others may second-guess our thinking and our decision-making. But when we know what’s right, we can’t let those things throw us off. We need to stand by our convictions. As Albert Mohler, president of the Southern Baptist Theological Seminary, said, “Convictions are not merely beliefs we hold; they are those beliefs that hold us in their grip.”

2. Following Your Heart with Integrity Can Increase Your Influence with Others

Because Ruth followed her heart and went with Naomi to Bethlehem, her influence on others increased. Instead of looking down on her as a foreigner, the Hebrews noticed her and admired her. She gained the favor of Boaz, who told her, “I’ve heard all about you—heard about the way you treated your mother-in-law after the death of her husband, and how you left your father and mother and the land of your birth and have come to live among a bunch of total strangers. GOD reward you well for what you’ve done—and with a generous bonus besides from GOD, to whom you’ve come seeking protection under his wings.”

When Ruth followed her heart and made her decision, she stood out from the beige lives of others. She impressed the people of an entire town, including the elders, who blessed her, declaring,

May GOD make this woman who is coming into your household like Rachel and Leah, the two women who built the family of Israel. May GOD make you a pillar in Ephrathah and famous in Bethlehem! With the children GOD gives you from this young woman, may your family rival the family of Perez, the son Tamar bore to Judah.

By following her heart and doing what she knew was right, Ruth went from being a foreigner to being someone who was respected, blessed, and honored.

When you follow your heart and do the right thing, your leadership potential increases. Leadership is influence, so anything that increases your influence and favor with others makes it easier for you to lead.

3. Remember to Be Humble and Keep Working as God Blesses You

When Boaz recognized Ruth and started to bless her, it might have been natural for her to slack off. After all, she was receiving the favor of a relative who had the power to redeem her and the property that had once belonged to Naomi’s husband. But Ruth remained faithful and kept working hard. Scripture says she worked hard before Boaz invited her to eat with him. Afterward she got right back to work and gleaned in the field until evening. And then she threshed what she had gathered before going home. This is the pattern she followed until both the barley and wheat harvests were done.

When God grants you favor as a leader and you receive His blessings, don’t let it go to your head and don’t let up. Keep working. When you have favor and momentum, push ahead. Naomi understood this. When she and Ruth began to receive Boaz’s favor, they didn’t just sit back and enjoy the provisions he made sure they received. Naomi capitalized on them. She told Ruth to lie at Boaz’s feet, as a sign of her desire to seek his protection. And he graciously gave it. He immediately became their advocate.

God wants His people to be recognized by others because of their love. I think we too often forget that. Ruth’s words of wisdom are a good reminder. If we love others and follow our heart in the way we treat everyone, it’s hard to go wrong.


From Wisdom from Women in the Bible, available at participating retailers


  1. a on January 14, 2019 at 11:02 am

    Dude this was great! I already knew this story pretty well but when you put it into these words it really made me think and to notice things i hadn’t or that i forgot happened. Thanks for this, it was great.

    • abamwe ruth on April 19, 2020 at 4:04 am

      Actually my name is Ruth and I love this story I read it usually ?????

    • Channey on May 6, 2020 at 5:09 am

      Loved this . Made Ruth so much easier to comprehend and understand

  2. John paul on February 17, 2019 at 10:47 am

    How wonderful lessons .thank you

    • Holly on May 14, 2020 at 2:23 am

      “She moved from the agony of questions she could not answer to the reality of answers she could not escape.”
      I love that so much. It was just what I needed to hear today. I’m going to use that quote as a new mantra this week, and channel my inner Ruth. Thank you.

  3. Shirley on April 30, 2020 at 5:39 am

    I truly believe , w hen you do what’s right God will reward them that seek after Him, and do the right thing no matter what people think

    • Carlene from Jamaica on April 9, 2021 at 10:01 am

      Carlene from Jamaica Wow God is so good i was searching for my Gift to go foward in fulfilling my purpose so i can enrich others with the word of God and when i read wisdom from women in the bible and about Ruth character and how she made her decision to change others life.This got a hold on me.Thank you for shearing this powerful lesson.May God continue to bless and fill you up with wisdom and truth as you shear his word.

  4. TONNY on May 20, 2020 at 9:06 am

    i have learnt from Ruth. God had not promised to make her life better,she didn’t have a dream or vision but felt the conviction unlike us today even when we have promises we still default in our faith.

  5. Candice Williams on July 29, 2020 at 8:28 pm

    Great explanation of who and what Ruth stood for in her Christian life. You have challenged me in so many way. I wish I could continue to live a Ruth life of standing to do what is right despite what people say. The truth done from a pure heart shall set one free. Blessed are those who follow their hearts for their crown is in Heaven. Thanks Man. Be blessed. What a narrative about Ruth. Waaal. Need I say more.

  6. Rod on August 20, 2020 at 10:11 am

    Taking notes on points you’ve discussed. Loved this.

  7. Denz Kimberly on September 9, 2020 at 7:23 am

    Love this post. Thankd

  8. Drickus on September 30, 2020 at 4:14 am

    What all people can learn is that through her, the future has come to pass that “the birth of Jesus Christ” brings redemption for sin, for God choose the foolish things of the world to put ashamed the wise, and the weak things to break strongholds. 1Cor 1:27.

  9. john molopyane on October 3, 2020 at 12:19 am

    Thank you,for the Good work of a workaholic woman,if our generation can learn from Ruth scripture,they would be better in life through eternity..

  10. Solomon, Dickson Alib on October 10, 2020 at 5:05 am

    I am really blessed with this explanation in this book, as a theological students used it for my assignment in the school. God bless you more i

  11. Rose Kgolane on January 18, 2021 at 3:38 pm

    Truly enjoyed this read. Thank you for sharing.

  12. Chinwe on January 28, 2021 at 7:27 pm

    My favourite book in the Bible is the book of Ruth.
    It’s loaded with life lessons; it teaches you about the importance of being at the right place, being ready for change, hope, determination, wisdom, generousity, strategy, kindness, favour, being at your best, the list is endless.
    Thanks for sharing some of it. God bless!

  13. Abraham Oduro Essiaw on February 12, 2021 at 3:26 pm

    The life of Ruth is what am above to live to keep my Christian background very concrete

    • Zwile on March 26, 2021 at 5:50 am

      Wow mind opening….Thank you so much for sharing

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  15. Megumi on March 19, 2021 at 10:45 pm

    This is very interesting story in the life of Ruth. I love her so much, even she didn’t leave her mother-in-law. I cried a lot when she made a promises to her mother. May women inspires her so much.

  16. Peace on June 22, 2021 at 12:41 pm

    This is great!!! Thank you so much for being an impact!!!

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